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No one would ever seek out a 50-year-old sugar baby … John was a 34-year-old business executive from my town.
His "Hello" note was very straightforward, even a bit cold.
Foreplay felt like a chore, and eventually we weren't having sex at all.I learned that he had two children and was separated, largely because he and his wife weren't intimate enough. He was looking for someone who was sexy, confident and stable, which he wasn't finding by dating younger women. After my past experience with the 29-year-old, I was worried that he might not be on my maturity level.But the way he spoke about his career and what he wanted out of our arrangement told me there were no nasty tricks up his sleeve.It was pretty uncomfortable at first, since he showed up wearing a suit and asked very non-personal questions about my life.
"Tell me a little bit more about yourself," and, "What have you learned from your past relationships? It felt more like a job interview than a date, and there were no fireworks exploding like I had hoped.I existed to make dinner for the kids and provide an open ear when he needed to vent.After 15 years — six of which involved intensive marriage counseling — I finally decided to walk away.He'd laid all his cards on the table, and I was either in or out.