Dating after sex
19-Jan-2021 06:03
It’s a good way to build intimacy once it's over.An hour-long one-star-rating diatribe about how terrible it was won’t go down well – and will directly result in nobody in the vicinity going down on scientists, that is, of course.There’s a whole industry devoted to telling you how to be better in bed – instruction manuals, videos, well-meaning sex gurus and counsellors who seem to think lube and sensual massage is the answer to everything.But what about when it comes to what to do after sex?Research has shown the first few minutes after sex are a good time for requesting favours.Assuming you’ve done a decent job, it’s said partners who are more likely to be willing to do stuff for you – or agree to your ideas – in those cosy few moments.
Don’t be afraid to say what you liked, or would like to try next time.
Virginity was a stand-in for purity and morality, a misogynistic ideal that was—and is—used to repress female sexuality.